Life is a complicated thing. We chugh along and then...bam...we are hit with something we think we can't survive. I've been hit by that train. But trust me. You do get by. You survive. You even find happiness. I promise. I really do. The tunnel is long and the dark is dark. But the light at the end is good and you can find happiness. As a veteran I can promise this. That light will be there.

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